Ok i think guys are really lousy at courting girls plus they are super not original. Girls can simply guess what they are going to do or what they are planning to surprise them with which makes it TOTALLY NOT SURPRISING. Just that most of the time we act as if we are SURPRISED. Here are some tips to help the poor guys woo girls successfully!

1. Use compliments wisely.

Certain compliments that you might give initially, while certainly sounding nice and possibly genuine, sound trite and cliche.
Examples of things not to compliment include her eyes (whether they're beautiful or not, she's heard it a million times. If you use this one, save it for later-- it won't get you points initially), her smile, her breasts (never), basically anything physical. By you showing interest in her in the first place, you've already given her a sign that you find her physically attractive. No one sees a girl at a bar and says "Gee I think she has a nice personality", so avoid the physical comments-- at least for now. When you're admiring her physicality uncovered, then perhaps a comment would be appropriate.
Things you should comment on-- anything that is a genuine extension of her personality and/or mind. If you notice her wearing a certain band's t-shirt, if she wants to save the world in Africa, there's no real catch-all, but the trick is to find something about her that sets her apart from other girls, particularly in terms of her intellect. Tell her that you love how smart she is, and that conversations with her always make you think. For bonus points, tell her that she challenges you--but that you love that about her. Trust me-- this works, with any woman, anywhere, any circumstances.

2. Focus on her eyes in your conversation. Even drifting down to the lips is dicey. The Egyptians thought eyes were the window to the soul-- and they never got slapped.

3. Avoid pick-up lines -- unless you can do it in such an obviously exaggerated way that she laughs at how cute you are.

4. Call her, and tell her that you were just thinking of her. For reasons unknown to scientists, this increases your standing in her book tenfold.

5. When you are out with her, be a firm guy. Stick with your YES or your NO. Girls like guys who are really manly and decisive. For example if you intend to pay for her clothes or food, insist that you pay and don't allow her to even take out her money. Sometimes the girls are just testing whether the guy is really sincere about paying so be firm with ur decision and hand out your money fast. At the movie theater, buy her movie ticket and her food and drinks. Some girls won't want you to pay for them; if that's the case, don't press the issue. If you're willing to pay, just offer every time. It's the thought that counts, and she's sure to recognize your courtesy and appreciate that you're willing to do things her way. You should be able to see whether she really don't want you to pay or she's trying to test you. Be smart and identify whcih is the case. If you're really dumb i don't know what to say. =)

6. Be chivalrous. Hold doors. Hold car doors. Hold house doors. Hold restaurant doors. Pull out her chair. Say Please and Thank you-- to everyone, not just her. Don't interrupt when she's talking. Walk her to her door (ask permission first)

7. Don't call too much-- this gives you a stalker vibe. Instead, plan your calls strategically, with a purpose for each. Call her the night of/the day after the date to tell her you had a good time, and make plans for the next date then, while she's sitting there remembering what a good time she had. However, some girls do like when their boyfriend calls them a lot. You might want to try hinting, by saying something like "I always think about you! I keep wanting to call you" and if she says something playful back, such as "well, why don't you?" then you know its okay. You need to figure out what kind of girl she is first.

8. Treat her with absolute respect, at all times. If you don't respect her, and she's a woman with self-respect, you'll get no where. If you don't respect her, and you get somewhere, it's because the girl has no self-respect, and there's no victory in that for you either. The key to wooing any girl is to make her feel unique, special, and cared for by a great, charming guy. If you are confident-- and keep your wit about you-- you should have no problem.

9. Find something that's your "signature"-- something you do that no one else has, or that no one else has a lot. A hand kiss isn't done often in this day and age, and brings with it bonus points for being a gentleman and being romantic. A forehead kiss is a sure-winner, but is often overused. Something simple that sets you apart. You need to be set apart from every other guy she has dated or will date in her mind and in her heart. Good luck.

10. NEVER ever forget to get her something when its a special occasion. It just shows how sincere you really are about wooing her. Don't forget her special occasions, especially her birthday.

11. Most of the time guys aren't creative about planning their dates. Try thinking of ideas where you have not thought of and maybe you could also get ideas from guy frens who are good at such stuff. Please don't be too predictable. Girls really can understand the guy so easily that they know what you are planning. For example, you intended to give her a surprise by turning up at her house. Do not ask questions like "So you will be staying at home later?" Its too bloody obvious. Ask a day before with questions like, "Tomorrow i'm v. busy, will be out whole day doing wadever wadever. How about u?" Lie about being busy den appear at her house with a really sweet present like chocs. This is then UNPREDICTABLE.

12. Never talk about other girls around her unless you're saying how much better she is than them, and even then, don't do it too often. The only exception to this is if she asks for your opinion on a certain girl, and if you compliment said girl in any way, make sure to reconcile with a compliment to her.

13. Be truthful, there is no need to lie. Girls usually find out anyway. <-- this is really v. important. If the girl finds out, it would be really bad for the relationship because we would find it more difficult to trust the guys and normally what we would do or rather what i would do is to check the guy's handphone because he hasn't been truthful. So if you want privacy, show that we can trust you.

14. If a girl is upset with you, listen and try to fix things. Just try and compromise. Tell her that you love her all the time and mean it dont play games with her let her know that she is special.. No matter how bad your quarrel might be with the girl, never leave it hanging like that. If she walks away, follow behind her although she might say harsh things like "DON'T FOLLOW ME". She's 95% lying that she doesn't want to be followed. Unless she really pissed with you until she slaps or hit u for following her. If she realise that you are not following behind her she gets pissed even more. It actually shows that you can't be bothered.

15. If she gets cold, take off your jacket and help her into it, or if you are feeling brave, put your arm around her. Sometimes when girls say they are cold, they just want you to hug them.

16. Show that you are impressed by her, but don't forget to impress her with something different. show you are different and sometimes crazy about life. Show her something that only you have got. Whatever that you have at advantage of, make full use of it to impress her.

17. Girls are all the time analysing details on you, what you do, what you dress, dates and other things, they are more sensitive than guys, so act carefully

18. If she tells you about a problem, don't try to fix it. Just listen to her. (There are a few exceptions.)If she starts to cry, hold on to her like she might fall apart - girls like a sense of security when everything else seems to be going wrong.

19. Get in shape. You don't have to be really muscular -- in fact, many girls don't like this -- but if you want to build yourself up, here are a few good exercises:
Arms - Get a dumbbell and do 50 curls on each arm every other day.
Shoulders-Stand up with dumbbells, have your palms face out on your shoulder and move up and down. Do 25-50 every other day.
Chest-Lay on the ground with dumbells with your palms up and your hands on your chest. Push up and down, do 50 every other day.
Abs-Do 50-100 sit ups each day.
or do 200 crunches aday.
Legs and overall body weight-Run 2-5 miles every other day. Once you think of a sport you want to play, try and make the one that is most popular in your school.

20. While you're walking together, run ahead and hold a door open for her. This is a very sweet thing to do for a girl. If that's too awkward for you, wait till she's with a crowd and hold the door open for about 4 or 5 people, including her. It's still a nice thing to do, but is not as personal.

Some of them is i write myself, the others i got them online. So i think this is what work best for the girls. Good luck to all the guys. Don't worry if you can't do all of it. Its just extra bonus for getting the girl to be attracted to you.

* another misty day 7:25 PM